Even before I started med school, I knew that I would need a good support system. And I knew that was going to be a little complicated, because I was moving to a country where I knew nobody at all. I have good friends, but the closest to me geographically, are still in the next country. It's 4hrs away, so it turned out ok and I get to see them on a somewhat regular basis (money and time being short and all.)
I also knew I'd need mentors. I had never actually had a mentor, so I didn't know where/how to find one.
Then I went to Africa and worked with Dr. Scott. Before I went, I had no idea if we'd get along, I was even a little aprehensive. But we got along great, he taught me a lot, trusted me, and told me to come back any time. So I went back, and learned even more. I know he'll be there for me if I need help or encouragement, and I'm lucky to have him.
Last year, I had also contacted a Neurosurgeon from the US about an article he wrote, and to my greatest surprise, he wrote me back, gave me his phone number and told me if I ever had any questions, to feel free to contact him. I am planning on working with him in the near future, so we've emailed a few times, and even though we haven't met yet, I feel like he's also becoming a mentor, and I'm grateful for that.
To finish, I recently went to a neurosurgery congress and met another great neurosurgeon. It was a small congress, and I ended up talking one-on-one with him on numerous occasions, about medicine, but also about philosophy, injustice and traveling. He gave me some great advice and also invited me to do a rotation with him when the time comes (I'm still an MS2).
I can't believe how lucky I am, that without even trying to, I have found myself 3 mentors. Three great surgeons and great human beings, to look up to, ask advice from, and generally have "in my corner," should I ever need help or get discouraged.
To all of you pre-med, med students and residents out there, find a mentor. At least one. Someone you can trust and who can help keep you motivated, inspired and give you a little push once in a while. We all need it. :)
